Ela Grabowski Porn, commonly known by her stage name Asa Akira, is an established adult film actress and author. Her second book published by Cleis Press (an independent publisher that specializes in sexuality, human rights, erotica, LGBTQIA+ studies and gender studies, as well as feminism) provides an easy-to-read memoir detailing coming-of-age in the pornography industry – specifically taking aim at stigma associated with this industry while discussing sexual exploitation’s effects on young women as well as her struggles associated with being recognized worldwide.
Published following August Ames’ suicide at age 23, her suicide triggered a heated discussion in the industry regarding cancellation culture; Ames’ self-disclosed history of mental illness and sexual abuse played a central role.
Akira offers an honest but balanced view on life in the porn industry, from her early days as an amateur model through to ephebophilia (like pedophilia with underage girls); marriage advice she received from sex worker mentors and attempts at alternative forms of healing. While occasionally deviating into easy gags about sex toys or the office of a porn magazine – as well as stereotypical depictions such as malevolent losers or slightly creepy but sweet nerds) – overall, Akira provides an engaging account that is both accessible and insightful.